Great Sex

The key to great sex is all about foreplay. And for many people, foreplay represents a variety of things, from dinner with sensual foods like strawberries and whipped cream to a little parking activity after a date. But what really builds up to great sex seems to be the sensual massage.

If you have never performed or given a sensual massage, it is all about the different sensations of the massage oils, and the touching. For this journey to great sex, make sure you have all the proper tools like massage lotion or oil that is safe for internal and external use (hopefully you understand the reasoning there), and a towel or sheet to lay on since massage oil can get messy. Inspect your hands too. There won’t be any great sex coming from this sensual massage if you have ragged nails or hangnails.

It’s important to set the mood for this sensual massage, so choose whatever turns you and your partner on, whether it is soft music, burning incense, lighting candles, or all of the above. Get your partner comfortable on the bed and get ready for some massaging! Whatever you do, do not squirt cold massage lotion on your partner. Nothing kills the anticipation for great sex more than something cold and icy down your back.

Squirt the lotion or oil on to your hands and rub your hands together to warm them. Start out with light pressure all over the body, visiting areas like behind the knees and between the toes - places that don’t usually get much attention otherwise. Gauge your partner’s mood before your slick, wandering hands find a few other places to massage.

Take your time. Draw out this stage in foreplay and build up the anticipation. When the moment is right (you should know by the change in breathing and the writhing going on), ease your way into the next stage on this journey to great sex.